Amazing Story of a Mother

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When Carolyn Isbister put her 20oz baby on her chest for a cuddle, she thought that it would be the only chance she would ever have to hold her.

Doctors had told the parents that baby Rachel only had only minutes to live because her heart was beating once every ten seconds and she was not breathing.

Isbister remembers:

I didn’t want her to die being cold. So I lifted her out of her blanket and put her against my skin to warm her up. Her feet were so cold.

It was the only cuddle I was going to have with her, so I wanted to remember the moment.” Then something remarkable happened. The warmth of her mother’s skin kick started Rachael’s heart into beating properly, which allowed her to take little breaths of her own.

We couldn’t believe it – and neither could the doctors. She let out a tiny cry.

The doctors came in and said there was still no hope – but I wasn’t letting go of her. We had her blessed by the hospital chaplain, and waited for her to slip away. But she still hung on.

And then amazingly the pink color began to return to her cheeks. She literally was turning from gray to pink before our eyes, and she began to warm up too.

The sad part is that when the baby was born, doctors took one look at her and said ‘no’.

They didn’t even try to help her with her breathing as they said it would just prolong her dying. Everyone just gave up on her,” her mom remembered.

At 24 weeks a womb infection had led to her premature labor and birth and Isbister (who also has two children Samuel, 10, and Kirsten, 8 ) said, “We were terrified we were going to lose her. I had suffered three miscarriages before, so we didn’t think there was much hope.” When Rachael was born she was grey and lifeless.

Ian Laing, a consultant neonatologist at the hospital, said: “All the signs were that the little one was not going to make it and we took the decision to let mum have a cuddle as it was all we could do.

Two hours later the wee thing was crying. This is indeed a miracle baby and I have seen nothing like it in my 27 years of practice. I have not the slightest doubt that mother’s love saved her daughter.”

Rachael was moved onto a ventilator where she continued to make steady progress and was tube and syringe fed her mother’s pumped breastmilk.

Isbister said, “The doctors said that she had proved she was a fighter and that she now deserved some intensive care as there was some hope. She had done it all on her own – without any medical intervention or drugs. She had clung on to life – and it was all because of that cuddle. It had warmed up her body and regulated her heart and breathing enough for her to start fighting.

At 5 weeks she was taken off the ventilator and began breastfeeding on her own. At four months Rachel went home with her parents, weighing 8lbs – the same as any other healthy newborn. Because Rachel had suffered from a lack of oxygen doctors said there was a high risk of damage to her brain. But a scan showed no evidence of any problems and today Rachel is on par with her peers.

Rachel’s mom tells us, “She is doing so well. When we brought her home, the doctors told us that she was a remarkable little girl. And most of all, she just loves her cuddles. She will sleep for hours, just curled into my chest. It was that first cuddle which saved her life – and I’m just so glad I trusted my instinct and picked her up when I did. Otherwise she wouldn’t be here today.”

Mirror….mirror…

Why become enamored or enraged with the mirror, when your beliefs are the source of the image? ( Alan Cohen)

Life is just a mirror, and what you see out there, you must first see inside of you. (Wally ‘Famous’ Amos)

Behavior is a mirror in which every one displays his own image. (Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe)

Stop talking!
What a shame you have no familiarity with inner silence!
Polish your heart for a day or two:
make that mirror your book of contemplation.
(Mathnawi)

Believe you, me and the others

Believe those who are seeking the truth; doubt those who find it. (Andre Gide)

Nobody believes the official spokesman… but everybody trusts an unidentified source. (Ron Nesen)

Persuading others to do what we believe does not work unless we do it ourselves. Dedicate yourself to doing. (Unknown)

You have to believe in yourself when no one, else does. That’s what makes you a winner. (Venus Williams)

What we think or what we know or what we believe is, in the end, of little consequence. The only consequence is what we do. (John Ruskin)

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We have to agree most with John Ruskin.

Quotes and Sayings on Living #1

We are living in a world today where lemonade is made from artificial flavors and furniture polish is made from real lemons. (Alfred E. Newman)

Most of our unhappiness keeps us living in the past and prevents us fully living in the present. (Unknown)

Be not afraid of life. Believe that life is worth living and your belief will help create the fact. (William James)

With excellent time management, you get more living out of life, more time for the people and things you enjoy. (Brian Tracy)

Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma – which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of other’s opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary. (Steve Jobs)

That little voice inside us

I think we all have a little voice inside us that will guide us. It may be God, I don’t know. But I think that if we shut out all the noise and clutter from our lives and listen to that voice, it will tell us the right thing to do. (Christopher Reeve)